Do you think spanking a teenager on the bare butt is guy abuse? Its not guy abuse to me. I think teenagers should get spanked if they deserved it. If a teenager doesn't want a spanking on the bare butt then they shouldn't be talking back to their parents and they shouldn't be disrespectful and cussing to their parents. As long as a teenager is living in your house you should be able spank them. What do you think? |
| I agree with you on everything, Abel. |
I still get spanked as a teenager, why? I'm a teenager and stilled get put over the knee and spanked. It's embarssing, the other day i was spanked because I lied about my history test saying I had a B when i had an F. If you were my parents what would you do?
-are you spanked?
-how old?
-how is it done?
-by mom or dad?
-should i still be spanked? |
| Yes you should still be spanked as a teenager, and lying is one of the biggest reasons for a good spanking. My parents spanked me all the way through college at age 23, and I will do the same with my sons. I hope for your sake that your parents do the same. |
Did you ever get spanked as a guy or a teenager? Tell me why and what weapon was used? I was whooped as a guy and a teenager with a belt. |
| im 14 and i still get spanked with a belt. |
Should a guy or teenager be spanked or wooped? do u thinks parents should hit their little guys and teenagers with a belt so hard?
I will never hit my guys |
| Depends how hard. For example, my grandpa, was an evil man, he would make his guyren bleed. And I mean, he beat them up. There is a big difference between ABUSE and DISCIPLINE. I am very glad my dad spanked me and whooped me with the belt, at the proper time. Never in front of others. He used to, but as we grew older the discipline changed. The last time my dad hit me, was when I was 7. Now, that I am 15, his discipline is different. He now talks to me, gives me advice, and maybe grounds me. I guess, it depends on each guy. My mom never liked the idea of us getting whooped, since her dad did abuse of her, in a physical way. If I have guys, maybe I will spank them, when they are small, but as they get older, a teenager, I do not think should anymore, instead by grounding them, and talking to them. |
What should be done after spanking your teenager? What do you say to her afterwards. How long should it be to allow her cry and think about why she was spanked before going back into her and talking to her about why she was punished |
| You should apologize. You shouldn't be spanking a teenager in the first place. |
Do you think that a teenager is "too old" to be spanked? Spanked, hit, whatever you want to call it.
I've heard a lot of people say yes but I can't see why. If your parent wants to, or "must", then let it be. As long as no injuries are caused. |
I think after a certain age, like, once your guy has learned about sex and stuff, it can be a bit akward. I guess it depends on how you do it. In my opinion, the deliverance of physical punishment had more of an emotional effect (the humiliation, the rush of emotion-fear, anxiety, etc.) and I kind of think that emotional effect would no longer affect a teenager. I know it wouldn't affect me. Besides, the things teenagers do to get in trouble need to be dealt with in a different way because the things we're doing to get in trouble are far more serious. Before we'd get spankings for "not listening to mommy when she told us not to eat the cookies" now it's "not listening to mommy when she said not to sneak out with that boy". If I had the choice between a spanking and a grounding, I'd take the spanking any time because I know that it'd be over soon. As a guy, getting a spanking was so awful because getting in trouble, then, was SO AWFUL and it was going to hurt.
Long story short: if I snuck out of the house and got caught, but I knew the only thing waiting for me when I got home was a slap on the wrist and a stern talking to, I'd sneak out. But, if I knew that if I got caught I'd lose my car, I'd rethink things.
Pluuus, how akward would it be to pull down your guy's pants to spank them? You'd see all their "new development" and that would be mortifying....
and some people are into spanking, you just never know what your guys are into... |
Doe any parent here think that it is okay sometimes to spank a teenager if they need it? I have a 14 year old daughter. She is a good daughter, but at times she can be a brat. I've spanked her a few times at her age, nothing terrible, just an old-fashioned spanking over my lap with my hand. It works well, but grounding does not work (she never respects any restrictions). Who else believes that it is okay sometimes to spank a teenager (I would say until age 16, after that, they are a little old). |
Spanking? Nah, not after 10 I think.. Then it's just strange...
By now you would think she would be mature enough to discuss the situation without it leading to something physical.
But to answer the question. I don't think it's ok to spank a teenager. |
HELP, with my teenager, i spanked her!? help? i'm 22 and a guardian of a 15 year old. she's been with me for a while now and never really done anything bad. i grounded her last week, just for something small but she wasn't allowed to go out. She came home yesterday and she was drunk i had a talk to her but she just swore at me and gave me attitude. She was grounded though and i had been at work. i've tried everything with her i've grounded her, i've taken her things away but i spanked her yesterday. i feel very bad now because she was crying and her butt was sooo red. was it really wrong of me? should i apologise to her? |
15year old, drunk?? and left while she was grounded?
She deff. deserved it. Dont apologize.
Thatll teach her a lesson. |
Do you think teenagers need to be spanked? I think they do because sometimes teenagers forget who the parents are. Some teenagers tell their parents what to do and some parents let it slide. What do you think? Don't you think teenagers need to be spanked for telling their parents to **** you! Parents do you let your guys talk back to you and say shut up to you? I think their bare butt need to be tore up for that! So what do you think? |
Lol Yes!!!
I am 15 y/o and wouldn't DREAM of talking back to my mum or giving her ANY disrespect! I know I would be shown the slipper!! Lol... My mum is good though bcuz she always asks me for my opinion before she makes decisions that I would be affected by. It shows that she still values my opinion.
Being a Jehovah's witness I follow Gods word, the bible. It says to honor your father and mother. (or mother in my case- Dont see my dad)
Lol but anywayz I completely agree with you!!!! |